Oh, you shouldn't even have to ask. If a drinker has to ask someone if they think they drink too much, then they probably drink too much. Get it? ;-)

Some sissies have only a desire to dress up, and even then there are niches that like only specific kinds of dress up, such as the sissy who likes maid outfits. There are some with a corset fetish, and still others who simply love love love PANTIES and will wear them all day even under their man-clothes. Are you one of those?

Some like to picture themselves in BDSM situations, Forced Feminization (even to the point of 100% feminization including real breasts!), sissy slave and so on. You can get into this lifestyle and find others online in your own area. You could be surprised, my dear. (Warning: Adult site). Do you imagine yourself in this embarrassing situation?

Variety is the spice of life, and there are so many varieties of sissies. Yes, we have baby sissies, sissy maids, latex sissies, high heeled sissies, lingerie sissies. Yum yum yum. Be who you are. Want to find more sissy stuff? Start here. Want to humiliate yourself and announce to the world you are a sissy and/or wear panties?

So what's the big deal???
The slogan of this site is "Real Sissies Wear Panties" -- why is that so important?
 BECAUSE WEARING PANTIES IS THE BEST STARTING POINT!
Sissies really shouldn't be allowed to even OWN other (ugh) men's underwear. Really.

Sissies realize they have a sissy nature when they discover their allure to panties. From there, sissies branch out to include more feminine articles of clothing, and then makeup, then the body modifications (pierced ears and so on). Train yourself to be a better panty sissy.

It's so critical to start wearing panties as often as possible; around the house there is NO excuse NOT to wear panties! At work, you can wear panties underneath almost anything. Sissy Gina tells how she continues to "step it up a notch" becoming more and more sissified.

Browse tons of Sissy Panties. (Try Flirty Lingerie as well)
But first read the panty guide to learn about different panty styles.

Like Panty Stories? Good girl, of course you do. That's because you want to know it's okay to be a panty loving sissy like you, and there are many others out there who LOVE BEING A SISSY JUST LIKE YOU! You might also like the Men in Panties blog (ADULT SITE).

"Being submissive is the meaning of my sissiness."
"It is in my nature to be obedient."
"It is in my nature to serve."
"It is in my nature to fulfill the desires of another."
"I let go of my rebelliousness."
"I let go of my resistance."
"I let go of my will."
"The more aroused I am by having no control, the more I desire it."
"The more control I give up, the easier it becomes."

These are some of the 50 Submissive Sissy Affirmations that have just been released at Sissyme.com.

We have downloaded the .mp3 and IT IS WONDERFUL. Sissyboy has been pantified, sissified, turned into a sissymaid and now is having his brain washed into becoming totally SUBMISSIVE!

What about you?
Isn't that WHAT YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED???
Yes, Mistress.

Of course this is a site for sissy boys in panties -- duh!

If you are here, it is most likely because you yourself love to wear panties, or you love to see other men in panties.
Do you like panties? Are you still conflicted by wearing panties? I DARE YOU to Flaunt it!

Read some of the answers to questioning whether it's alright for men to wear panties:

HE PREFERS PANTIES -- Parents want son to stop wearing panties

Dr. Jeannette's Gal Stuff -- Men who wear panties question (don't ask what her 'special report' is -- I don't want to quit wearing panties! )

My Nippon: Life, Love and Fun -- Men in Feminine Underwear

Why I Wear Panties

Want to MAKE A CONFESSION about wearing panties?
And last but not least: the MEN WEARING PANTIES club!

What is considered "KINKY?" Sex toys? Bondage? S&M?
Wikipedia says it's a broad range that includes spanking, bondage, dominance & submission, BDSM, and fetishism.
We like it all!

I like to dress in sexy lingerie and play with TOYS. Is that KINKY???
I desire to submit to my Mistress. Is THAT kinky???
How about an interest in Bondage? With a little bit of S&M?

Variety is the spice of life, sweeties!
My secret fantasy is to be taken to a dungeon, be dressed in the sexiest lingerie with high heels and makeup, made up like a slut. I would be tied up and used by both a Dominant man and woman (with strapon). I'd be subjected to spankings, some C&BT, nipple clamps, etc. All my orifices would be for their pleasure. They'd have me in a chastity device so the only pleasure I'd experience would be from anal stimulation. Ahh, such sweet fantasies.

Don't you think fantasies are healthy? Some use fantasy for self-pleasure, others as part of love-play. It can aid arousal,  but  to some people it can be disturbing. LIFESCRIPT says: "At the end of the day (or the wee hours of night), sexual fantasies are an opportunity to deepen the intimacy with your partner, to learn more about yourself, or to be clued into underlying emotional issues. Just remember to play it safe."

I like to fantasize about BONDAGE. Believe it or not, there are even methods of performing SELF-BONDAGE (be careful). Wanna learn some knots?
There's videos at TwistedMonk.com that you can watch and learn these 10 lessons:

1. The Two Column Tie
2. Single Limb Cuff
3. Basic Chest Harness
4. Rope Handling Techniques
5. Rope Width & Length
6. Basic Hair Tie
7. Basic One Column Tie
8. Basic Hog Tie
9. Chest & Leg Tie
10. Body Harness

SUBMIT -- OR ELSE!

Like the sound of that? Does someone barking orders at you as you are dressed as a sissy excite you? You probably have a desire to be dominated. You would love to be dressed, possibly as a french maid, and obey every order to clean, serve, and submit to the wishes of the Dominant.

Part of the Dominance/submission fantasy is that with many crossdressers, it remains just that -- a fantasy. Dressing up may be an erotic activity, and once dressed for erotic reasons, that can be heightened by other fantasies, particularly the D/s one. How many times have you wished for FORCED FEMINIZATION for example? For someone to increasingly turn you into their sissy slave? For someone to pull down your panties and bend you over their knee when you disobey? The internet abounds with websites that cater to the sissy in search of sissification, or forced feminization. Just do a websearch for "forced feminization, and that will be a testament to the popularity.

Sometimes the forced feminization fantasies include erotic hypnosis. A helpless male subliminally turned into a submissive sissy slave, without knowing why he can't help it. We've come across quite a few hypnosis sites, many which address submission, sex slave training, feminization, and so on. The recordings range in price from $15 - $35 from what we've seen. They also range in length and quality.

The recordings at Sissy Me are all about 20 minutes long, and are a little different from the others. Some of the so-call "hypnosis" downloads turn out to be merely stories for erotic entertainment. Others are simply a set of instructions. The Sissy Me downloads, on the other hand, are mental affirmations that the sissy practices. The intros put the sissy into a relaxed state where s/he becomes more receptive to the affirmations. Then they can be practiced all day long. They all cost $15. They will have a Submissive Sissy Affirmations download in January, according to their website.

We've said quite a bit on this site about sissy maids. That's because it's one of the things that is just a natural fit for a sissy. For some reason, we LOVE doing sissy chores and also serving someone else. Does that sound right? You bet! Can't you picture youself in a nice skimpy outfit, bending over cleaning, reaching high up to dust and show off your undies, mincing about in your heels? Ooooh, that sounds special!

It's very tantalizing looking at Maid Outfits at Frederick's -- just type "maid" in the search box. I wish I had a whole closet of them! I do have a few pairs of high heels to choose from, and lots of sexy stockings and lace garters. And I enjoy cleaning house, doing dishes and laundry. How did I get this way? I don't know -- as a child, I had the MESSIEST room! Now it just seems part of my nature, now that I have allowed myself to be truly me. Why, put a maid's outfit on me, I'll go right to work!

Some do need training though. Word is, SissyMe is releasing a "HOUSEKEEPING" affirmations mp3 this month. I can't wait! If you want to give someone a real Christmas present, something like this should help you train to to housework gladly (and immaculately)/

UPDATE: SissyMe does now have the above mentioned "HOUSEWORK TRAINING" available for download (mp3). Here's their description of the file: "20 min. audio suggestion over soothing background music. Deep relaxation intro lulls you into 62 Housework Affirmations that will train you mentally to enjoy being a house maid!
18.3Mb File Size" and it is selling for $15 -- not a bad investment if you want to make your Master/Mistress happy with your housekeeping duties!

Isn't there something just so addictive about being a sissy? The more you do it the more you like it!

Same with dressing up: the more you do it, the more you like it. And you also get better and better at it.

But there's the converse phenomenon -- if you do it less and less, you will start thinking and feeling more masculine. Ugh! (eventually, you will reach a point where it will feel like you're gonna explode if you don't get into some feminine clothes again, but why do you even want to go there???)

To keep myself in top sissy shape, mentally physically and emotionally, I start the day with Sissy Affirmations. During housecleaning I put on my headset and listen to Sissy Maid Training. At night, again I put on my headphones and listen to Panty Affirmations. Why, you ask? I want being a sissy  to be VERY ingrained in me -- every cell of my sissy body! AND I LOVE IT! I LOVE IT! I LOVE IT!

We love and adore sissies in French Maid outfits!



If you want to impress someone, and show them you're really serious about being the best maid possible, you'd probably fork out a little more money for something very pretty. Then you should head over to Frederick's of Hollywood. mmmmmm

Get your brain wired for Sissy Maid Training. Train your brain.

Heh, heh... It's not the kind of self-restraint that keeps you from impulsively doing something you wish you hadn't; this is LITERALLY SELF-RESTRAINT! Inexpensive way to restrain yourself with nylon straps in the following colors:



Self-bondage CAN BE DANGEROUS! You don't want to get yourself trapped in a situation you can't escape from, especially a life-threatening one. Although, there are some stories about people getting CAUGHT!

If you're gonna play, you don't always "have to pay" -- you can always use a SELF-TIMER that will release your bondage at a set time. When you get to the store, go to "Bondage Gear" and look under category "Dungeon Irons"



Read: "Why people do self bondage"